That Hoarder: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding #200 Things I wish I'd known: a letter to Episode One Me
Oct 3, 2025
19:14
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Reflecting on the journey from my terrified first recording to episode 200, I am talking today how speaking out brought connection, understanding, and a community I never thought possible. This episode is a letter to my past self, and it’s also to you. It’s honest about what’s changed, what’s still hard, and the unexpected power of not being alone.
If you’re struggling too, know you’re part of something bigger here.
- Letter to Episode One Self
- Emotional state during the podcast's inception (fear, isolation, shame)
- Misconceptions about being alone with hoarding disorder
- The unexpected journey and growth started by publishing the first episode
- Early Understanding of Hoarding Disorder
- Lack of knowledge about hoarding at the start
- Pain of isolation and confusion
- Limited exposure to terminology, research, and causes
- Learning and Personal Growth Through the Podcast
- Gained understanding about the science and psychology of hoarding
- Insight into links with trauma, grief, ADHD, autism, and anxiety
- Struggles and gradual improvements in managing inner critic
- Realities of Recovery
- No “quick fix” for hoarding disorder; non-linear progress
- Importance of learning
- Learning to discuss hard issues before they are resolved
- Building a Community
- Realisation of not being alone — over 400,000 plays
- Listeners’ responses and the impact of shared stories
- The growth of a supportive community, accountability calls, and new friendships
- Challenging Shame and Secrecy
- Confronting and gradually reducing shame through connection
- The belief that shame was deserved begins to change
- Disclosure of hoarding disorder to three real-life people and their supportive reactions
- Helping Others Through Honest Sharing
- Helps others feel less alone
- Listeners gain courage, understanding, and the will to seek help
- Gained Wisdom & Tools
- Increased confidence, self-trust, and knowledge
- Action, however small, is key to progress
- Understanding that worth is not tied to cleanliness or orderliness
- Recognition that recovery is more than just decluttering
- Accepting Ongoing Struggles
- Open acknowledgment that challenges persist
- Emphasis on wisdom and resilience, not just results
- Evolution as a Podcaster
- Recognition of the podcast’s impact on the host and the community
- Gratitude for guests and listeners
- Encouragement to continue the journey, highlighting non-linearity and hope
- Thanking podcast guests
- Appreciation for both long-time and new listeners
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