Julien Blanc | The Vault The Brutal Truth Every PEOPLE PLEASER Needs To Hear
Mar 21, 2024
Learn how to overcome the trap of people-pleasing by embracing authenticity and shedding masks to form real connections
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Most People Live Behind Social Masks
- Most people wear social masks and default to shallow, scripted interactions.
- Julien Blanc calls this the 'good good good' conditioning that hides realness and creates fake relationships.
Just Tell The Truth In Relationships
- Be honest and simply tell the truth when you're in a relationship instead of learning formulas.
- If you can't be real with a loved one, you don't have a genuine relationship, Julien argues.
Two Social Games: Compensate Or Be Real
- Julien describes two games: compensating (fake) and authentic (real).
- Compensating people amplify fronts with tricks and feel tension and try-hard energy.