The Documentary Podcast BBC Trending: Are we dating the same person?
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May 14, 2025 A new Telegram chat ignited a storm, evolving from innocuous dating discussions to the sharing of revenge porn. The journey traces back to Facebook groups aimed at cautioning users about dangerous relationships. While some view these groups as safety tools, many highlight the devastating impact on lives. The podcast examines the stark contrast between community support and harmful online behavior, revealing the dark side of sharing personal information without consent and the crucial role tech companies must play in user safety.
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Hannah's Dangerous Match Discovery
- Hannah matched with a man who was later found to be in jail for manslaughter through an "Are We Dating the Same Guy" Facebook group.
- She discovered his criminal background only after seeing him posted on the group, which helped her avoid potential danger.
Safety and Moderation Balance
- 'Are We Dating the Same Guy' groups help women identify potentially toxic or abusive men on dating apps.
- Groups are heavily moderated to prevent bullying and protect privacy, creating a complex safety tool.
Matt Napier's Retaliation Story
- Matt Napier was falsely accused in an "Are We Dating the Same Guy" group after a brief relationship ended.
- He created a support group for men falsely accused and also helps women facing harassment from those groups.