308. Parenting Boys in Today’s Culture: Eight Essentials for Moms | Molly DeFrank

Sep 23, 2025

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Boyhood today looks very different than it did a generation ago, and many moms are wondering how to raise sons who thrive in a culture that often works against them. In this conversation with Molly, we talk about why so many boys are struggling and how we as moms can ground them in faith, family, and belonging. We dive into practical ways to recognize your son’s unique wiring, reframe weaknesses as strengths, and guide him through big emotions, school struggles, and everyday responsibilities. From the resilience built around the family dinner table to the importance of one-on-one connection and real-life community, you’ll hear encouragement and tools for nurturing boys in the formative years so they can grow into men of strength, character, and purpose!

In this episode, we cover:

Why boys today are struggling and how culture shapes their sense of identity
Biblical principles that guide us as moms raising sons
Recognizing the unique wiring of each boy and learning to reframe weaknesses as strengths
The importance of belonging, worldview, and family connection
Family meals as a simple but powerful practice for building resilience in kids
Eight key areas to nurture in your son during the formative years
Creative ways to weave one-on-one connection into ordinary family life
Guiding boys through anger and big emotions
Encouraging motivation and building focus for schoolwork without constant battles
Teaching boys to notice messes, take initiative, and follow through on responsibilities
Understanding what’s “normal” chaos in a boy-filled home and how to balance it with structure
Why real-life community is vital for moms raising boys, and how it brings encouragement and perspective

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