Haaretz Podcast

'In war, there's also the psychological struggle of parents who can't provide safety'

Jan 13, 2025
Karen Zivan, a psychologist and mother of five IDF soldiers, discusses the profound psychological toll of war on Israeli families. She highlights the emotional chaos following the October 7th attacks and the urgent need for mental health support. Joining her, Nagham Zbeedat shares her insights on the dire humanitarian crisis in Gaza, particularly the struggles parents face in providing basic care for newborns amidst conflict. Both stress the unseen emotional battles parents endure when safety for their children becomes elusive.
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ANECDOTE

October 7th and Family Deployments

  • Karen Zivan recounts the chaotic unfolding of October 7th, initially removed from the news due to Shabbat.
  • As news trickled in, her sons' messages revealed their deployments amidst the escalating crisis, causing immense worry.
ANECDOTE

Supporting Family and Community

  • Zivan's daughters-in-law expressed immediate needs for support with childcare as their husbands deployed.
  • Zivan also balanced professional responsibilities, supporting families, teachers, and school staff grappling with the war's impact.
INSIGHT

Nonverbal Support

  • Zivan observed a shared coping mechanism within her community: hugging and nonverbal communication.
  • This unspoken support acknowledged the collective trauma without the need for words or questions.
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