Grown and Growing Podcast 84. Alternative Relationships: Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy
Jun 10, 2025
Deb Dennis, an attorney and the moderator of the DMV chapter of Black and Poly, shares her insightful journey into ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. She dismantles common myths, emphasizing that it’s not just about sex but involves deep emotional maturity. Deb discusses the importance of communication and consent in navigating complex relationship dynamics. She also highlights the supportive community around polyamory and how it empowers individuals, particularly women in their forties, to explore love and connection beyond traditional norms.
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Understanding Ethical Non-Monogamy
- Polyamory is a form of ethical non-monogamy requiring consent and full disclosure among all partners.
- Relationship dynamics can vary widely, including 'monopoly' where one partner is monogamous and the other polyamorous.
Deb's Journey to Polyamory Identity
- Deb dated multiple men simultaneously before knowing it was called ethical non-monogamy.
- She now identifies as ambiamorous, comfortable in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships.
Jealousy in Polyamory
- Jealousy exists in polyamory but is openly acknowledged and discussed.
- Communication about feelings is foundational to managing jealousy in poly relationships.