The Lila Rose Show E281: One Brain: The Neurobiology and Theology of Marriage w/Arthur & Ester Brooks | Lila Rose Show
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Jan 6, 2026 
Arthur and Ester Brooks share their journey of love and faith in this engaging discussion. Arthur, a Harvard social scientist, reveals insights from his research on happiness and long-term marriage. Ester, a musician-turned-writer, reflects on their meeting in France and the lessons learned from living together before marriage. They explore the importance of trust, mutual submission, and the role of faith in strengthening their bond. The couple also emphasizes teaching young people about the value of family and unconditional love.
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Marriage As The Strongest Predictor Of Happiness
- The Harvard Study shows love, especially long-term marriage, is the single strongest predictor of long-term happiness and health.
- Other key predictors include non-smoking, exercise, learning, problem-solving, and a spiritual/prayer practice.
Meeting In Dijon And Moving To Barcelona
- Arthur and Ester met in Dijon, France in 1988 as musicians and built a relationship despite a language barrier.
- Arthur later moved to Barcelona for an orchestra job and they lived together before marrying, eventually settling in the U.S.
Take Prudent Risks For High Reward
- Take risks in love; de-risking (e.g., dating apps) reduces adventure and reward in life.
- Prudence means choosing the right path at the right time, not eliminating risk altogether.
