Mamamia Out Loud When You Want To Be ‘Unmarried’ But Not Divorced
Dec 28, 2024
David Finch, an Autism and Neurodiversity consultant and author of "The Journal of Best Practices," shares his unique perspective on being 'unmarried' instead of divorced. He explores the emotional intricacies of modern relationships, particularly those influenced by neurodivergence. Finch delves into his journey of self-discovery post-diagnosis and the challenges of marriage, discussing the importance of empathy in love. He humorously navigates the pressures of authenticity in dating and reflects on how relationships evolve through shared experiences.
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Childhood Quirks
- David Finch describes himself as a happy, quirky child growing up on a farm in Illinois.
- One of his quirks involved scooting on the floor with his forehead against the carpet for sensory stimulation.
Social Dynamics and Humor
- David had a small, consistent friend group but wasn't widely invited to social events.
- He often felt like an outsider, unsure if his humor was intentional or simply perceived as funny due to his unique perspective.
Navigating Grief
- David struggled to support Kristen after her fiancé's death, lacking a model for expressing grief.
- This highlighted his difficulty with improvisation in emotionally charged situations where social scripts weren't readily available.
