The Deep End With Lecrae The Divorce Story Toni Collier Never Planned to Tell
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Nov 28, 2025 Toni Collier, an author and speaker known for her raw storytelling, shares her journey through childhood trauma, addiction, and the struggles of abusive marriages. She opens up about the shame of leaving her first marriage and the desperation that led to a rushed second one. Through her vulnerabilities, Toni highlights the importance of community in healing and introduces her book, 'Don't Try This Alone,' which emphasizes the need for support in tough times. Her candid insights provide hope for anyone dealing with heartbreak and loss.
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Early Caregiving And Hidden Addictions
- Toni Collier became a caregiver at eight after her mom's stroke and started self-medicating with alcohol and porn as a child.
- She left home at 16, finished college early, and carried trauma into adulthood.
Serving Revealed The Gap To Sanctification
- Toni realized she was a fan of God, not a follower, living a double life while serving in ministry.
- Serving exposed the gap between salvation and sanctification and prompted deeper pursuit of Jesus.
Bring Accountability Into Relationships
- Don't try to be your husband's Holy Spirit; bring accountability into relationships early.
- Recognize red flags, ask God about big decisions, and involve others instead of hiding struggles.
