The Partially Examined Life Philosophy Podcast PEL Presents PvI#107: Mary and Mark Argue About Arguing
Dec 13, 2025
Mark and Mary dive into whether argumentation is essential to philosophy and explore how to engage with opposing views. They share insights on the importance of internal dialogue and being open to challenges, while also critiquing the limits of debate. Improvisation principles come into play as they discuss ensemble conflicts and the power of shared discovery. Riffing on astrology and alternative healing practices, they blend humor with reflections on belief and personal growth, all while tossing in playful animal facts.
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Argument As Internal Inquiry
- Philosophy often centers on arguing with yourself, weighing abstract positions rather than fighting others.
- Mark says argument is primarily an internal tool for testing and refining beliefs, not necessarily adversarial combat.
De-Escalate Before You Debate
- When anger flares, regulate your body (breath, vagus stimulation) before engaging the other person.
- Mary describes stepping back, softening, and then asking where the other person is coming from to learn rather than escalate.
Leaving An Improv Team For Health
- Mary recounts auditioning for a house improv team and clashing with a player whose negating choices made her physically ill.
- She asked the player to change, got pushback, and ultimately removed herself from the ensemble for her well-being.
