Open relationships: The more the merrier or a recipe for disaster?
May 12, 2024
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Exploring the history and evolution of open relationships, from prehistoric times to the modern internet age. Guests share their experiences and insights into polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. Delve into the challenges, complexities, and societal shifts surrounding consensual non-monogamy.
Open relationships have historical roots dating back thousands of years, showing a recent shift towards non-monogamy in mainstream culture.
Molly Rodin Winter's journey from monogamy to open relationships emphasizes individuality, communication, boundaries, and self-exploration for deep connections and happiness.
Deep dives
The Rise of Open Relationships
Open relationships and non-monogamy are increasingly popular, with a surge in books, TV shows, and the mainstream embracing this lifestyle. Molly Rodin Winter, author of 'More: A Memoir of Open Marriage', shares her experience of the first ten years of opening her marriage, revealing the challenges and joys of navigating this unconventional relationship style.
Evolution of Terminology and Historical Context
Molly initially struggled with the labels for her open marriage, transitioning from polyamory to ethical nonmonogamy to explain her commitment to her husband while engaging in other sexual relationships. She highlights the historical roots of polyamory dating back thousands of years and the recent shift towards nonmonogamy in mainstream culture.
Personal Journey and Lessons Learned
Molly's journey from a monogamous marriage to embracing open relationships was sparked by a chance encounter that reawakened her sense of self. Through explorations of polyamory and self-discovery, she learned the importance of individuality within relationships and dispelled myths around merging identities with partners. Her current fulfilling relationships showcase that open communication, boundaries, and self-exploration can lead to deep connections and happiness.
Open relationships are more popular than ever - but what's it like being in one? And what’s the history of non-monogamous, consensual, romantic relationships - from prehistoric times, via the Second World War to the modern internet age?
This podcast contains descriptions of sex and sexual acts.
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