Celebrity feelings expert Margaret H. Willison discusses the reasons behind our anger towards celebrities, exploring dashed expectations and specific examples like Taylor Swift with Matty Healy. Delve into the complexities of public outrage, celebrity controversies, and fan relationships, gaining a more nuanced understanding of our own celebrity feelings.
Celebrity actions can evoke strong emotions, shaping our connections or triggering disappointment.
Fans feel betrayed by celebrity behaviors that conflict with their expectations, leading to anger and support for the ex-partners.
Deep dives
Processing Celebrity Outrage and Expectations
The anger and expectations surrounding celebrity behavior are discussed, focusing on the responsibility celebrities have to their fans and the public. Examples from Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift's actions are used to illustrate the complexities of these expectations.
Navigating Celebrity Relationships and Fan Reactions
The impact of John Mulaney's personal life choices on fan reactions is explored, addressing the feelings of betrayal and anger in response to his divorce and new relationships. The speaker reflects on how fan actions, like supporting his ex-wife's work, can help process this anger.
Reflecting on the State of Online Dating in 2024
The evolving landscape of online dating in 2024 is mentioned, hinting at the changes and challenges expected in the future. An upcoming class on sustainable online dating is referenced, indicating a shift towards more intentional and mindful dating practices.
Participating in Pilgrimages and Classes with Margaret
Information about joining cultural pilgrimages and classes led by Margaret, including focus on Jane Austen, Taylor Swift, and upcoming themed events, is presented. Margaret's Instagram and Substack are highlighted as platforms to follow for updates on her work.
I spent years of my life studying celebrity images and what makes them meaningful to us. A celebrity’s actions or words can make or deepen our connection to them — or they can really piss us off. But why? Is it just a classic case of dashed expectations? What makes, oh, Taylor Swift hanging out with Matty Healy so disappointing? For this episode, I asked celebrity feelings expert Margaret H. Willison to come answer your questions about the broad contours of celebrity-directed anger — and work through some very specific examples. I promise: you’ll leave this episode with a more textured understanding of your own celebrity feelings.
Note: This episode was taped before the conversation re: the Met Ball and celebrity silence on Gaza; you can read more about it here.
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