Explore Stoic concept of the neutrality of circumstances and how our perspective can determine our happiness. Learn strategies to redefine our limits of happiness.
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External circumstances are neither good nor bad, only our judgments determine their value.
Setting lower limits for our happiness allows us to find contentment independent of external factors.
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The Neutrality of Circumstances
Epictetus reminds us that good and bad are simply our own judgments and that things external to us, events and circumstances, are neither good nor bad. The Stoics teach that it is not circumstances and events outside of ourselves that make us happy or sad, but how we view them. By choosing to set a lower limit for our happiness, such as just being alive or being able to breathe, we can immediately find happiness regardless of external factors. The story of the speaker's struggles with financial difficulties and the realization that he could make it through and still be in control of his life serves as an example of this principle.
Reframing Conditions for Happiness
The speaker challenges listeners to change their limits of what will make them happy. Instead of setting conditions and saying, 'if only this thing would happen, then I'd be happy,' they encourage embracing a mindset where happiness can be found regardless of external circumstances. The speaker shares their personal experience of facing financial struggles and realizing that even in the face of potential hardships, they could figure out how to survive and still find happiness. This story serves as a reminder that happiness is a choice within our control, and that by reframing our conditions for happiness, we can find contentment and let go of unnecessary stress.
"Where does the good lie? ‘In the will.’ And evil? ‘Also in the will.’ And things neither good nor bad – ‘... lie in whatever is external to the will.’" - Epictetus