The Quote of the Day Show | Daily Motivational Talks Dean Graziosi: “Kids Don’t Need You to Get Them to Understand You, They Need to Feel Understood.”
Nov 27, 2025
Dean Graziosi, an entrepreneur and bestselling author, shares invaluable lessons on parenting with humor and heart. He emphasizes the importance of making kids feel understood rather than forcing them to understand. Dean highlights the significance of entering their world, discovering the root causes of their behavior, and authentic communication. He illustrates how storytelling can impart vital life lessons and advocates for rewarding good behavior unexpectedly to reinforce positive choices. His insights resonate beyond parenting, offering wisdom for life itself.
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Make Kids Feel Understood First
- Kids will listen and respect you when they feel understood rather than when you try to get them to understand you.
- Prioritizing how children feel builds connection more than lecturing or correcting their behavior.
Enter Their World Regularly
- Enter your child's world by learning their current interests and language so conversations land with them.
- Update your references regularly to avoid becoming outdated and shut down communication.
Find Root Causes, Not Blame
- When problems arise, stop blaming and dig for the root cause before reacting or punishing.
- Solve issues with your child by asking questions and addressing underlying feelings or triggers.
