Guests Heyang, Yushun, and Josh Cotterill discuss the pursuit of happiness from multiple dimensions. They explore topics such as self-identity, redefining happiness beyond work, different perspectives on happiness, the consequences of quitting, and the importance of self-love.
Diversifying happiness through multiple dimensions leads to a more balanced and harmonious way of living.
By diversifying sources of happiness, we can mitigate risks and find fulfillment in various activities and relationships.
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Multi-Dimensional Happiness: Cultivating Happiness from Multiple Dimensions
Multi-dimensional happiness is the idea of diversifying the avenues of happiness in various aspects of life. It involves developing self-awareness in different relationships and building self-identity. For example, someone with a 9-5 job, raising a child, and engaging in hobbies like baking and frisbee can find happiness in different areas, such as a sense of accomplishment from creating recipes and a sense of connection through team sports. This approach helps to fragment happiness and create a more balanced and harmonious way of living.
The Importance of Diversifying Happiness
Placing all hopes of happiness solely on one aspect of life can make us vulnerable to unpredictable setbacks and failures. By diversifying our sources of happiness, we can mitigate the risks associated with relying on one path. Diversifying happiness enables us to experience joy from various activities, relationships, and contributions. It emphasizes the need to avoid tunnel vision and explore different facets of happiness in order to find fulfillment and contentment in life.
The Relationship Between Self-Centeredness and Happiness
While pursuing happiness, it is important to consider the impact of our actions on others. When happiness is derived from activities that benefit both ourselves and others, it transcends self-centeredness. Engaging in teamwork, communication, and acts of kindness not only brings personal joy but also positively impacts the happiness of those around us. Happiness should be viewed as a combination of self-fulfillment and the well-being of others, fostering a sense of connection and community.
The pursuit of happiness often proves capricious. However, therein lies a subtle truth – anchoring our happiness solely in one place can leave us exposed to life's inescapable ebbs and flows. We explore a potential defense mechanism: the cultivation of happiness from multiple dimensions. Can it provide alternative ways of being happy? On the show: Heyang, Yushun & Josh Cotterill
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