

Projective Identification and Corrective Experiences
Nov 15, 2024
Dive into the intriguing dynamics of projective identification and projection, as the discussion uncovers how these psychological mechanisms distort relationships. Explore the value of emotional resilience and the joy of life's pleasures, plus reflections on interpersonal dynamics through a philosophical lens. The conversation also sheds light on the complexities of OCD, advocating for awareness and respect, and shares personal insights into navigating therapeutic journeys for deeper healing.
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What Projection Really Does
- Projection is denying an unwanted part of yourself and attributing it to others, often by distorting perception.
- It can be purely internal or drive behavior that fits the projection onto others.
Projective Identification Is Enactment
- Projective identification adds a socializing element: you unconsciously shape someone to behave like your projected trait.
- You both feel and enact the trait, creating a self-reinforcing interpersonal cycle.
Talking To Produce A Bad Listener
- Kirk uses a bad-listener example: someone who talks nonstop to provoke the other to stop listening.
- The speaker then accuses the listener, and the projection is complete.