Become New with John Ortberg Why You Should Stop Trying So Hard
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Nov 4, 2025 Discover the surprising wisdom of trying softer instead of harder in your spiritual journey. John Ortberg shares his personal experience with burnout and the transformative notion of letting go of control. Explore how excessive effort can backfire in various aspects of life, from sports to relationships. He introduces Jesus' invitation to the weary and emphasizes the importance of choosing the right yoke to find peace and transformation. Practical tips and prayer models are shared to help ease everyday pressures.
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A Mentor's Two-Word Correction
- John Ortberg recounts being exhausted trying to lead and please everyone at a church job.
- A veteran advised him bluntly: "Try softer," which changed his perspective on effort.
Try Softer When Effort Backfires
- Try softer when effort and control exhaust you and stop producing results.
- Replace white-knuckled control with relaxed trust to perform more naturally and effectively.
Will Has Limits; Letting Go Unleashes Results
- Some goals respond to will, but many outcomes resist direct control and worsen under force.
- Letting go often lets solutions emerge naturally, which is a simple picture of grace.
