Calmversations s06e92 | Cluster-B Blues, with Josh Slocum of Disaffected
Apr 26, 2024
Josh Slocum, host of the Disaffected podcast, dives into the complexities of toxic femininity and masculinity. He shares personal experiences navigating relationships influenced by personality disorders. The discussion touches on the challenges of mental health and the quest for genuine connections in a digital age. Slocum also explores the impact of family dynamics on masculinity and the emotional struggles tied to gender identity. Additionally, he engages in a heartfelt reflection on faith, personal transformation, and the importance of nurturing relationships for healing.
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Cluster B and Attention Economy
- Cluster B personality disorders rely heavily on external attention due to an unstable sense of self.
- Social media's structure exacerbates this need by promoting outside validation over genuine connection.
Joshua's Early Family Dynamics
- Joshua never met his biological father and was deeply affected by his turbulent relationship with his mother and stepfather.
- He identified emotionally with women in childhood, feeling like a fraud as a man.
Masculinity's Role in Society
- Men and women have different roles; men provide clarity and accountability, women comfort.
- A deficit of engaged fathers contributes to cultural imbalance and emotional hysteria.