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How to Not (Accidentally) Raise a Rapist

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Feb 5, 2025
Shael Norris, executive director of SafeBAE, and her daughter Ayla Mansman, a college student and passionate activist, discuss the critical need for effective consent education in schools. They emphasize the gaps in policies and share personal stories highlighting the challenges of advocating for sexual assault survivors. Ayla recounts her efforts to create change in her high school through initiatives like a Consent Summit, illustrating the importance of youth activism. Together, they explore innovative strategies for teaching consent and preventing sexual violence among teens.
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ANECDOTE

Ayla's Advocacy

  • Shael Norris's daughter, Ayla, advocated for sexual assault survivors in her high school.
  • After facing administrative resistance, Ayla posted a note about a rapist in school, leading to her suspension.
INSIGHT

Shame's Limitations

  • Ayla's activism, while brave, highlighted the limitations of shame-based approaches.
  • Shael reflects on the negative consequences and the need for more effective strategies.
ADVICE

Early Intervention for Nude Sharing

  • Talk to kids about sending nudes, even in middle school.
  • Reinforce messages about safe online behavior and encourage real-life connections.
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