The Russell Moore Show Jefferson Fisher on How to Have Difficult Conversations
Jul 16, 2025
Jefferson Fisher, an attorney and conversation expert with a massive online following, shares invaluable techniques for handling tough discussions. He emphasizes the importance of approaching conversations with curiosity and empathy. Fisher discusses strategies for setting boundaries and creating safe spaces, particularly in parenting and relationships. He also highlights the parallels between effective dialogue and the teachings of Jesus. Prepare to explore how emotional intelligence and mindful communication can transform your toughest talks.
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Postpone to Manage Conflict
- Postpone uncomfortable conversations to a better time or place to maintain peace.
- Use phrases like "I agree that's worth a conversation" to acknowledge others and reduce defensiveness.
Use Breath to Stay Calm
- You don't have to respond immediately or say anything you don't want to.
- Use a breath before speaking to regulate emotions and stay calm in tough talk.
Set Boundaries Like Manuals
- Set clear boundaries by naming unacceptable behaviors and their consequences.
- Communicate boundaries calmly as a manual for others on how to interact with you.
