Join John Gustav-Wrathall, a gay Latter-day Saint in a fulfilling 25-year marriage, and Allison Dayton, founder of Lift+Love and a devoted mother to a gay son, as they explore faith and identity. John shares his heartfelt journey of acceptance and trust in the Spirit amid challenges within the LDS church. Together, they emphasize the importance of love, family support, and the healing power of community for LGBTQ individuals. Their candid conversation is a beacon of hope for navigating faith with empathy and understanding.
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John's Early Spiritual Journey
John Gustav-Wrathall realized he was gay at 14 and struggled deeply with his faith and identity.
After a spiritual experience of feeling God's love, he resigned from the church but later returned while embracing his authentic self.
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You Are The Church
John believes members are the church and their love or hate shapes its character.
Loving LGBT people means staying in the church to be part of the change you want to see.
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Coming Out to Parents
John came out to his parents at age 25 and initially faced tough conversations.
His mother's revelation and eventual parental acceptance gave him hope and healing.
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The Book of Mormon is a scripture that tells the story of a group of Hebrews who migrated from Jerusalem to the Americas around 600 BCE. It describes their history, including their division into two main groups: the Nephites and the Lamanites. The book emphasizes the appearance of Jesus Christ to these people after his resurrection, where he teaches them and establishes his church. It also discusses various doctrinal topics such as the fall of Adam and Eve, the nature of God, baptism, and the importance of faith and repentance. The book ends with Moroni's testimony and an invitation to readers to come unto Christ and be perfected in him[1][3][5].
The miracle of forgiveness
The miracle of forgiveness
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Today, we’re sharing a really special session from last year’s Faith Matters gathering, Restore.
This conversation has really stayed with us, and we're so grateful we get to share it with you now. It begins with a short, beautiful film—we’d highly recommend heading to our YouTube channel if you’d like to watch it. You’ll hear John Gustav-Wrathall share his journey as a gay Latter-day Saint—a path shaped by deep spiritual seeking, a loving and enduring partnership with his husband Goran, and an eventual return to his ward family. John speaks with honesty and courage about learning to trust the quiet, steady voice of the Spirit in the midst of complexity. His story holds both deep pain and profound peace.
After John’s story, Allison Dayton joins him on stage for a powerful conversation. As a mother of a gay son, she brings deep empathy to this space. She is the founder of Lift+Love and helped create Gather—a Christ-centered conference for LGBTQ individuals and those who love them. You can find more details at liftandlove.org, along with John’s full story.
This session was a beautiful reminder of what it can look like to wrestle with faith and walk the path of love.
We’d love to invite you to join us for conversations like this in person at Restore, this year, which will be September 25–27 at UVU in Orem, Utah. It’s going to be an unforgettable weekend with incredible speakers including Sharon McMahon and Arthur Brooks, along with outstanding music, art, and community, all centered on restoring faith, belonging, and wholeness. Early bird pricing ends soon—now’s a great time to register. You can go to faithmatters.org for tickets.
-- Use GATHERFAITH coupon code for 20% off Gather tickets: https://www.liftandlove.org/
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