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When We Face the End of Life, ‘It’s Not Sadness We Should Fear. It’s Regret.’

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Jan 9, 2025
Sarah Wildman, editor and writer for New York Times Opinion, shares her poignant journey following the loss of her 14-year-old daughter, Orli, to cancer. Wildman emphasizes the necessity of open conversations about mortality, arguing that health care providers should foster this dialogue instead of shying away. She believes that facing the end of life isn’t about sadness, but rather the fear of regret. Their family's experience illustrates the emotional depth of navigating hope and grief through such a profound struggle.
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ANECDOTE

Orli's Question

  • Sarah Wildman's daughter, Orli, faced multiple relapses of liver cancer.
  • During a family trip, Orli asked a poignant question about her health's trajectory.
INSIGHT

Unspoken Fears

  • Orli's deeper concern was whether the cancer would ultimately claim her life.
  • This difficult conversation was not encouraged by healthcare providers.
ANECDOTE

Orli's Resilience

  • Orly displayed remarkable resilience and joy even while undergoing cancer treatment.
  • She participated in an Instagram Live interview, discussing her experiences.
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