Knowing Her Sexually Setting the Mood
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Sep 7, 2023 In this season opener, Chris and J explore the art of setting the mood for intimacy. They discuss how mental distractions, like chores and kids, can kill the vibe. Tips for using the five senses are shared, with emphasis on creating the right ambiance through sight, sound, and smell. Grooming is highlighted to ensure appeal, while they recommend romantic lighting and scents. Practical advice includes preparing items in advance and understanding what truly draws your partner in. It's all about creating an inviting atmosphere for closeness.
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Mood vs. Motivation
- Setting the mood is different from getting her in the mood; mood helps her fully relax and participate.
- Getting her in the mood requires long-term safety, trust, and connection while setting the mood removes distractions in the moment.
Close Her Mental Tabs
- Setting the mood centers on minimizing distractions and appealing to her mind and five senses.
- The ideal is to close distracting mental tabs so she can focus on intimacy.
To-Do List Kills The Moment
- Chris describes how visible chores trigger her to-do list and prevent focus.
- Once that mental tab opens she struggles to exit it and can't fully participate.