Alec (37 pansexual and heteromantic w cis m in a monogamous relationship with his partner of 17 years) and his wife are currently navigating the secret sex life of parents with three young kids, but he regales us with excellent tales of how they met in French class, how slutty collegiate days gave way to a reconnection which led to empowering nude shoots for her, which led to erotic shoots of them both, which led to the early days of content creation—yep, couples porn—because their chemistry was so apparent and yummy to photographers and filmmakers. And they used to teach pole dancing classes together. Yet Alec still has some shame-inducing thoughts so dark, he shares them with no one, and his early years included him absorbing consent talks via his sisters, text-based porn lurking on the internet when he was pretty young, and lots of anxiety or even paranoia around not pushing boundaries. He got a reputation for being great at cunnilingus before he’d ever even seen a vagina because of the punk band he was in, and is full of highly-specific, excellently articulated stories of auto fellatio, how he and his wife met Lord Morpheus of the Bondage Extravaganza, foot fetish loves especially texture and placement, how his wife fed him a pie she baked per his fantasy, pregnancy and lactation play, how they handle their switch-y dynamic when they both have different scales of switchiness, how he likes to play with chastity, toy company testing, pegging, large insertions, ball weights, security camera blind spots, the nuance of what counts as “sex,” and his experience with a long-term relationship that began with deep openness and honesty around desire.

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