Omar Suleiman

The Firsts - Zahir Ibn Haram - Ra Low Self-Esteem Until He Met The Prophet

Nov 19, 2025
The discussion highlights the story of Zahir ibn Haram, a Bedouin companion of the Prophet, shedding light on his humble beginnings and struggles with self-esteem. The Prophet's unique bond with Zahir is explored, showcasing how he elevated Zahir’s dignity through affection and humor. A memorable marketplace incident illustrates the Prophet's playful nature and his profound message that everyone is priceless to Allah. The episode emphasizes the importance of compassionate interaction and upliftment in building confidence among others.
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ANECDOTE

Zahir’s Relationship With The Prophet

  • Zahir ibn Haram was a deformed, low‑status Bedouin who embraced Islam and regularly brought gifts to the Prophet ﷺ.
  • The Prophet ﷺ personally clothed and cared for Zahir, building a lasting close relationship between them.
ANECDOTE

Marketplace Moment That Changed Him

  • In the marketplace the Prophet ﷺ playfully announced, "Who will buy this slave from me?" to draw attention to Zahir and make him laugh.
  • Zahir leaned into the Prophet ﷺ's embrace and allowed the moment to transform his self‑image.
INSIGHT

A Leader’s Words Can Reframe Identity

  • The Prophet ﷺ reframed Zahir’s self‑worth by saying, “In the eyes of Allah, you are priceless.”
  • A single sincere affirmation from a leader can permanently transform someone’s identity and confidence.
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