Parenting w/ Duane and Carrie Daunt

Jul 17, 2024

Duane and Carrie Daunt discuss sacrificial parenting, community support, and the impact of past wounds on parenting. They emphasize the pillars of intentional parenting: sacrifice, vision, alignment, and community. The conversation also covers homeschooling, family prayer practices, and parenting strategies such as limiting device usage and promoting hands-on activities.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

Exploring Mothering and Fathering Identities

01:46 • 2min

Embracing Spiritual Parenting in Catholic Faith

04:14 • 10min

Prioritizing Family through Sacrifice and Faith in Marriage

14:42 • 12min

Discussion about Symbolic Swords and Worthiness

26:37 • 2min

Reflections on Childhood Experiences and Parenting Challenges

28:11 • 13min

Pillars of Parenting: Sacrifice, Vision, and Community

40:46 • 26min

Homeschooling Transition and Family Prayer Practices

01:06:55 • 2min

Parenting Strategies and Values

01:08:40 • 20min

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Duane and Carrie Daunt to discuss what living out our identity of father or mother can look like as a biological parent. Duane and Carrie share the challenges and joys of parenting a large family and the role sacrifice plays in creating a strong and loving home. They also talk about how their own woundedness has impacted their parenting journey, the role of community, and what to do when spouses disagree.

Key Points:

Duane’s sacrifice and willingness to put the needs of his family above his own is an essential aspect of creating a loving home.
Community and mentorship play a crucial role in raising children and passing on the faith.
Parenting a large family comes with unique challenges but also brings great joy and fulfillment.
Our own woundedness and past experiences can impact our parenting journeys. It is important to seek healing and restoration in those areas.
We are human and will make mistakes. Seeking to reconcile with your children afterwards is important for healing and repair.

The Pillars of Duane and Carrie’s Parenting Style:

Be conscious of the parenting you received growing up and how that has affected you
The husband sacrificing creates the foundation of a loving home
Both spouses should have vision and alignment
Support from the community is necessary
The Catholic faith is the centerpiece of life
Do what it takes to be involved in your children’s lives
You may never see the fruit of your parenting efforts, but that doesn’t matter
Be open to feedback
Be Holy Spirit led
The messages your kids are hearing explicitly and implicitly matter and be attentive to them
Pray for the Holy Spirit to fill your inadequacies as a parent
Always attempt to repair
Root your kids in the truth

Resources:

Institute for Priestly Formation
Duane and Carrie’s books:
Beloved Daughter by Carrie Daunt
Undone by Carrie Daunt
Man Your Post by Duane and Carrie Daunt
JPII Healing Center Retreats (specifically the Unveiled couples retreat and the Undone women’s retreat)

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