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Inspiration for the Nation with Yaakov Langer

R' Reuven Epstein: Why Most Marriages End Up on Autopilot (and How You Can Beat the Odds)

Mar 22, 2025
56:34

Most marriages can fail but not because of betrayal or finances, but because couples unknowingly skip the one step that creates true emotional connection. In this powerful episode, marriage expert Rabbi Reuven Epstein reveals the real reason relationships break down, how to rebuild trust, and why emotional safety is more important than love. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this is the relationship advice that could change everything.


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Timestamps:

00:00 Intro

02:35 The Uphill Battle of Marriage

05:05 Marraige Isn’t All the Glitz and Glam

07:19 How People Enter the Dating World

11:05 The Difference Between Men and Women in a Relationship

13:45 Marriage Isn’t Transactional

16:10 Wheels to Lease

16:56 BitBean

17:38 What Marraige is Really About

20:04 The Importance of Marriage Education

22:30 Red Flags

26:00 People Who Need to Feel in Control

28:50 The Levels of Marriage

37:40 Mossaica Press

39:15 EretzHakodesh.org

39:40 Marriage is Like a Battery

41:56 Are Marriages Salvageable

47:00 Looking at Things at a Different Perspective

53:08 Where To Find Rabbi Epstein’s Books

54:29 Outro


✬ IN MEMORY OF ✬

This episode is in memory of:

• Shimon Dovid ben Yaakov Shloima

• Miriam Sarah bas Yaakov Moshe


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