Krista K. Thomason, "Dancing with the Devil: Why Bad Feelings Make Life Good" (Oxford UP, 2023)
Jan 10, 2024
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Krista K. Thomason, author of Dancing with the Devil: Why Bad Feelings Make Life Good, challenges the perception of negative emotions as 'bad', arguing that they are essential in understanding attachments and what we care about. The podcast explores the relationship between reason and emotions, questions the control we have over them, and highlights the value of experiencing and feeling them. It also delves into the connection between greed, envy, vices, and one's sense of self. The guest discusses her current research interests and briefly touches on the emotional side of Kant's work.
Negative emotions help us discover what we care about and what matters to us.
Negative emotions are not inherently destructive to society and can be managed in a healthy way.
There exists an emotion double standard that stigmatizes negative emotions, overlooking their value in providing insights into our values and desires.
Deep dives
Negative emotions are part of our attachment to ourselves
Our negative emotions are an essential part of our attachments to ourselves. They help us discover what we care about and what matters to us. Negative emotions, such as anger and envy, play a role in how we invest in our lives and express our attachments.
Negative emotions are not inherently destructive to society
Contrary to popular belief, negative emotions are not inherently destructive to society. There is a tendency to focus on extreme or destructive cases of negative emotions, but this overlooks the everyday instances where negative emotions are experienced and managed in a healthy way. Negative emotions can be part of the rich tapestry of human experience and do not necessarily threaten social cohesion.
The emotion double standard
There exists an emotion double standard, where positive emotions are often seen as unproblematic and even desirable, while negative emotions are stigmatized and portrayed as inherently problematic. This double standard overlooks the fact that negative emotions, like positive emotions, are part of our human experience and can provide valuable insights into what we care about.
Negative emotions and the sense of self
Our negative emotions are intimately tied to our sense of self. They can help reveal our values, desires, and attachments, providing important information about who we are and what matters to us. Exploring and understanding our negative emotions can contribute to the development of a more authentic and meaningful sense of self.
The complex nature of negative emotions
Negative emotions are complex and multifaceted, shaped by various factors including personal experiences, socialization, and cultural context. It is important to recognize the diversity of negative emotions and avoid generalizing or stigmatizing them. Embracing the complexity of negative emotions allows us to appreciate their role in our lives and fosters a more nuanced understanding of emotional well-being.
How could a good life include one with anger, or jealousy, or spite? In Dancing with the Devil: Why Bad Feelings Make Life Good(Oxford UP, 2023), Krista Thomason flips the script on popular ways of dealing with our emotions, including neo-Stoicism, mindfulness, and even the prosperity gospel. She makes the case that we should get rid of the double standard we have towards "good" and "bad" emotions, and that we should not aim to be emotional saints. Instead, because "bad" emotions are an essential part of our attachments to our selves, they help us discover what we care about. Thomason, who is an associate professor of philosophy at Swarthmore College, guides the reader through philosophical traditions regarding the relation of emotion to reason and the various approaches thinkers have come up with to deal with our "bad" emotions.
Carrie Figdor is professor of philosophy at the University of Iowa.