David Brooks, a renowned New York Times columnist and author focused on character and social dynamics, engages in a thought-provoking conversation. He critiques the excessive individualism that has emerged since the 1960s and reflects on his missed insights regarding the rise of Donald Trump. The discussion navigates the crucial balance between individualism and community, highlighting the importance of relationships over resume virtues. Brooks also connects historical lessons to modern identity struggles, emphasizing the need for meaningful social connections in today's fractured world.
The rise of extreme individualism has significantly contributed to increased loneliness and mental health issues, highlighting a need for stronger community bonds.
Emphasizing moral character over professional achievements can foster deeper human connections and strengthen societal unity amid growing fragmentation.
Deep dives
The Downside of Extreme Individualism
Extreme individualism has led to significant social crises, including a dramatic increase in loneliness and mental health issues. The percentage of Americans experiencing loneliness jumped from 20% to 40% over a generation, highlighting a growing disconnect within communities. Suicide rates have also reached a 30-year high, suggesting that the rise of individualism has negatively impacted social solidarity. This cultural shift, dating back several decades, has prompted a reevaluation of community connections and the importance of collective identities.
Building Bridges in Fragmented Communities
Despite noticeable alienation and distrust at a national level, numerous individual acts of community service are helping to rebuild local connections. A family in Washington hosts numerous at-risk youth, creating a space of warmth and support that fosters community spirit among the participants. This highlights the importance of bonding and bridging social capital, where inclusivity across diverse communities becomes essential in overcoming social isolation. By reaching out to those outside one’s immediate circle, individuals can help reinstate a sense of unity and belonging.
The Importance of Moral Character
The distinction between 'resume virtues' and 'eulogy virtues' underscores the need to prioritize moral character over professional achievement in society. Eulogy virtues, such as honesty and companionship, define how individuals are remembered and should receive more emphasis in education and personal development. A narrative focused on moral growth fosters deeper human connections, as reflected in the efforts of those dedicated to uplifting their communities amid widespread fragmentation. Ultimately, cultivating moral virtues can lead to more meaningful interpersonal relationships and a stronger societal fabric.
In this episode, Rabbi Jonathan Sacks speaks to David Brooks, the New York Times columnist and author of two books on character: ‘The Social Animal’ and ‘Road to Character’. David Brooks talks about how he thinks individualism has gone too far and about how he failed as a social commentator to see the Donald Trump phenomenon coming.
Producer: Dan Tierney
Series Editor: Christine Morgan
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