Edge of the Couch Permissive Parenting, Spanking, and The Therapist's Conundrum
Jan 21, 2026
The conversation dives into the complexities of modern parenting choices and their long-term effects. The hosts dissect the cultural persistence of spanking despite research against it, and how misinterpretations of child behavior can lead to harmful parenting practices. They reflect on the helplessness therapists feel when witnessing issues like excessive screen time and outdated sleep methods. Differentiating between permissive and authoritative styles, they advocate for clear boundaries and embrace the value of setting limits for children's development.
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Therapists' Dilemma When Parenting Arises
- Therapists often notice parenting choices that are culturally acceptable yet harmful to children.
- Jordan and Allison remind clinicians to balance curiosity with staying on the client's presenting topic.
Toddlers Aren't Manipulators
- Many parents misinterpret developmentally normal behaviors as manipulation or defiance.
- Allison explains toddlers lack the cognitive strategy to be 'manipulative' in an adult sense.
Address Spanking With Evidence And Compassion
- If parents express gleeful support for spanking, name research gently and clarify developmental impacts.
- Offer nonjudgmental alternatives when parents are ashamed and seeking change.
