The Secret to Lasting Love - Strategies for Modern Relationships

This One Relationship Tip Can Save Your Marriage | Secrets Therapists Wish You Knew

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In this powerful episode of Spirit Sherpa, host Kelle Sparta sits down with relationship coach and psychotherapist Tannaz Hosseinpour to discuss the real reason so many relationships fail—and how to prevent yours from becoming a statistic.

You’ll learn why most couples don’t understand nervous system regulation, how to communicate needs without blame, and the key mindsets that foster deep connection instead of division. Tannaz shares practical tools, mindset shifts, and even free resources to help you move from conflict to connection in any relationship—especially romantic ones.

If you've ever felt unseen, unsupported, or overwhelmed in love, this episode will change how you show up for yourself and your partner.

Key Topics Include:

Why "fighting fair" is a learned skill—and how to start

The truth about emotional safety and how to co-regulate

How to express your needs in a way your partner can hear

Why you should stop expecting your partner to "just know"

The energetic reality of relationships from a spiritual lens

How to build a conscious relationship that lasts

Signs your relationship can (or can't) be saved—and when to seek help

00:00 – Intro & Why This Episode Matters

03:42 – Meet Tannaz: From Law to Love

08:57 – Nervous System Regulation Explained

13:40 – Self vs. Co-Regulation in Partnerships

18:22 – Fighting Fair: Conflict Skills That Work

23:51 – Expressing Needs vs. Criticizing

30:15 – Masculine vs. Feminine Conflict Patterns

36:00 – The Bid for Connection Principle

41:50 – Tools for Long-Term Relationship Success

48:12 – Relationship Rituals that Create Intimacy

54:00 – Advice for Conscious Marriage Preparation

59:28 – Spiritual Self-Awareness in Partnership

1:05:33 – Final Tips & Where to Find Tannaz

1:09:00 – Kelle’s Wrap-Up: Choose Yourself First

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Licensing and Credits:

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