How to Start Building Your Tribe: Who Should Be in It?
Jun 25, 2025
Discover the practical steps for building a strong group of men and the importance of defining your vision and values. Explore how to select the right individuals to foster camaraderie and personal growth. Learn about the significance of engaging with existing communities instead of starting from scratch. The discussion delves into enhancing group dynamics through individual commitment and effective strategies for nurturing supportive environments. Plus, the value of guiding young boys toward responsible manhood is emphasized.
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Chesty Puller's Legendary Leadership
Chesty Puller led Marines with fierce loyalty and personal sacrifice during the Korean War.
Surrounded at Chosin Reservoir, he confidently ordered no retreat and successfully brought all men home.
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Identify Committed Tribe Members
Start building your tribe by identifying men with integrity, shared values, and commitment.
Ensure your church and context support male leadership and male-only spaces.
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Use Shared Activities to Unite
Build your tribe around shared activities that genuinely interest you.
Be a good friend and consistently invite men into these activities to form connections.
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