The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast

A Deep Dive Into Cuckolding - With Dr. David Ley

Jan 20, 2024
Explore the historical roots and modern resurgence of cuckolding, challenging societal stigmas. Dive into the psychology of cuckolding fantasies and the impact of shame on individuals exploring diverse relationships. Uncover the unconventional lives of historical figures like Victoria Woodhull and Napoleon, highlighting the evolution of sexual freedoms. Reflect on self-acceptance, the future of cuckolding, and the celebration of sexual diversity in relationships.
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INSIGHT

Shame Spiral Explains Cuckold Anxiety

  • Shame spirals (moral incongruence) drive repeated sexual behaviors and self-hatred.
  • Men who grew up religious are likelier to shame themselves about cuckolding fantasies and repeat the cycle.
ANECDOTE

Historical Wittols And Messalina

  • David Ley found historical examples of willing husbands (wittols) and insatiable wives far back in history.
  • He recounts Messalina who worked in brothels and once had a contest taking 25 men in one night.
INSIGHT

Society Contains Female Sexuality

  • Civilization often developed to contain female sexuality via social rules and punishments.
  • If social risks vanished, female promiscuity could surpass male promiscuity, Ley argues.
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