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Paul Coughlin: Bullies in Ministry

Jun 23, 2022
Paul Coughlin, a best-selling author and nationally recognized anti-bullying expert, discusses the issue of bullying in Christian organizations. He explores the traits of bullies, their deceptive tactics, and offers advice on how to handle bullies in ministry. He also shares insights on combating bullying in various contexts, including adolescence and the workplace. Coughlin highlights the importance of not giving away personal information and pushing back early on against bullies.
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  • Bullies in ministry often use spiritual manipulation and deceit to harm others.
  • Confronting bullies requires setting strong boundaries, documenting their behavior, and seeking wise counsel.

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Understanding the prevalence of bullies

According to Paul Cochlan, about 15% of the population are malevolent bullies who do the most harm in professions like medicine, teaching, and ministry. Most people are not bullies and respond well to gentleness, but being nice and gracious often worsens the behavior of bullies. Bullies excel at using power, both real and perceived, to inflict harm on others.

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