Learn the dos and don'ts of texting after a date, including waiting for her to text first. Discover how to engage in conversation without appearing too eager. Find out how to handle situations when a girl responds or does not respond to your text. Explore the importance of timing, avoiding lengthy conversations, and using a casual approach to ask her out again. Also, gain insights into strategies for dating multiple women and the importance of texting after a date for setting up another date.
Waiting a day before texting after a date creates tension and mystery, showing you're busy but still interested.
Making a comment instead of asking a question when reaching out after waiting allows for engagement and avoids pressure.
Deep dives
Wait to Text After a Date
One tip discussed in the podcast is to wait a day before texting your date after your first meeting. The host suggests keeping the tension and mystery alive by avoiding immediate follow-up messages like "Had a good time" or "Did you get home safe?". By waiting a day, you give the impression of being busy and not overly eager. However, if she texts you first, it's acceptable to respond, but the host advises replying the next day to maintain some time gap.
Comment on Something from the Date
When you do reach out to her after waiting, it is suggested to make a comment rather than asking a question. You can comment on something you enjoyed during the date, like a particular drink or food, or something you both discussed. The purpose of the comment is to show interest and initiate a response without putting pressure on her. The idea is to create an opportunity for her to engage in conversation.
Asking for a Second Date
If she responds to your comment, the host advises that you use that as an opening to ask her out for a second date. This prevents prolonged texting and potential miscommunication. Give her a full 24 hours to respond to your comment, and if she does, take the chance to ask her out. However, if she does not respond within 24 hours, it is recommended to act as though you never sent the text and proceed to ask her out directly the next day, suggesting a specific activity or meal.
You can have a dating system where you know the best action to take for each scenario, so you don't have to think about it. One of those is texting a girl after a date. We'll go over when to text her, what to say, and what to do if she doesn't reply to help you get the next date.