Weekend Listen: He owes his life to a lie, now will anyone believe what he calls the truth?
Mar 1, 2025
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Join Alex Kurzem, a Holocaust survivor who masked his true identity as a Jewish boy by posing as a Nazi soldier, and his niece, Beba Menglis Ford, as they unravel decades of family secrets. Alex grapples with his traumatic past and the struggle to have his unbelievable story believed. Beba shares cherished memories and highlights the bonds between family while exploring the fine line between truth and embellishment. Together, they embark on a poignant journey of identity, memory, and the emotional weight of their shared history.
Alex Kurzem's harrowing journey illustrates the extreme measures individuals adopted during the Holocaust to survive, often resulting in lost identities.
The podcast highlights the ongoing struggle of trauma and memory, as Alex confronts disbelief about his story while seeking his true self.
Deep dives
A Shocking Decision for Survival
During the Holocaust, a Jewish child named Alex Curzum faced a life-or-death decision: to survive, he had to adopt a false identity. After witnessing the brutal murder of his family, he made a harrowing escape into the woods, where he narrowly avoided death and was ultimately taken in by a Latvian police battalion. Instead of being killed, he was given a new identity and forced to become a mascot for the Nazi regime, living a fabricated life that erased his true heritage. This experience left him with deep emotional scars, as he had to bury his real identity in order to survive.
The Complexity of Identity and Memory
As Alex navigated the trauma of his early years, he was burdened by a struggle to remember his past while maintaining his false persona. Encounters with his adopted family introduced complexities, as he forged relationships while concealing his true self. The tension between his hidden identity and the façade he presented to the world created an ongoing internal conflict that haunted him throughout his life. Eventually, he began to uncover the layers of his past, but this journey was fraught with difficulties as the truth threatened to unravel the carefully woven fabric of his survival.
Unraveling the Truth of the Past
Years later, the quest to understand his real identity intensified as Alex sought to piece together the fragments of his existence. Conversations with relatives revealed the extent of his trauma and the guilt he carried for his role in the Nazi battalion, which forced him into unimaginable situations, including the harrowing responsibilities of war. The narrative of his life, filled with vivid memories and stark contrasts, raised questions about the reliability of memory and the nature of truth. As he grappled with disbelief from others regarding his story, the pursuit of his legitimate identity became a quest not only for truth but also for recognition and understanding of his experiences.
As a child, Alex Kurzem faced a choice: be killed or join the killers.
In the midst of the Second World War, he was separated from his family and taken in by a group of soldiers as one of their own. He was made a member of Hitler’s army – a toy soldier with his own rifle and miniature SS uniform.
But what the soldiers didn’t know and what no one would know for decades: he was a Jewish boy masquerading as a Nazi to save his life.
Alex lives with this false identity for so long, he no longer remembers who he was before – forgetting his parents’ faces, his birthday, his own name. But before he dies, Alex is determined to find the identity and family stolen from him during the Holocaust.
This is the story Alex would tell the world decades later, but doubts quickly took hold and wouldn’t let go. Could a story so unbelievable be true? Or is this a con to profit from the Holocaust? Eighty years on, is it possible to uncover who Alex really is? Host Dan Goldberg unravels the true story.
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