Get Organized! by Dr. Frank Buck cover image

Get Organized! by Dr. Frank Buck

The Trouble With "Try": When Your Good Intentions Fall Short

Feb 18, 2025
Explore how the word 'try' can sabotage your success and weaken commitments. Discover the dangers of ambiguity and why switching to definitive statements like 'I will' fosters accountability. This discussion highlights the importance of clear communication in both personal and professional realms, ultimately paving the way for improved results and stronger relationships.
06:08

Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

  • Eliminating the word 'try' from your vocabulary fosters stronger commitments and enhances accountability in personal and professional endeavors.
  • Transitioning to definitive language like 'I will' improves reliability and communication, leading to stronger relationships and personal growth.

Deep dives

The Pitfalls of Using 'Try'

The word 'try' often creates a safety net that undermines true commitment. It allows individuals to set low expectations for themselves and provides an excuse for failure, reducing accountability. For instance, saying, 'I'll try to finish the project by Friday' implies doubt and gives no firm deadline, which can affect how others perceive reliability. This casual approach can lead to self-sabotage, as it shifts focus away from achieving tangible results to merely exerting effort without accountability.

Get the Snipd
podcast app

Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
App store bannerPlay store banner

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode

Save any
moment

Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways

Share
& Export

Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode