When we consider our childhood, we typically think about our parents’ influence on our development. But what about our brothers and sisters?

Recent research in developmental psychology suggests we’ve been overlooking the profound impact our siblings have on us—not only on our childhood experiences, but also our adult relationships.

As siblings ourselves, Elliott and I have lots to say about this topic!

We discuss the unique bond brothers and sisters share and the woundedness that can occur due to sibling rivalry and competition. And, we consider several research studies along with Jeff Kluger’s book, The Sibling Effect.

Finally, Elliott offers recommendations for how to heal from sibling wounds and how to approach your brother or sister to discuss the pain in efforts to move toward reconciliation.

https://www.ted.com/talks/jeffrey_kluger_the_sibling_bond?language=en

Younger and older siblings contribute positively to each other's developing empathy
The effect of siblings on children's social skills and perspective taking

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