Mental Illness Happy Hour #729 The Ripples Of Childhood Abuse - Nathan Spiteri
Jan 3, 2025
Nathan Spiteri, an Australian filmmaker and advocate, candidly shares his journey through the pain of childhood abuse and its lingering effects. He discusses the complexity of attachment to his abuser and how he unwittingly perpetuated cycles of harm. Spiteri delves into the impact of trauma on his identity and relationships, contrasting traumatic experiences with typical adolescent life. The conversation also highlights the stigma surrounding male sexual abuse and the healing power of vulnerability, empathy, and storytelling.
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Initial Trauma
- At eight years old, Nathan Spiteri was raped in a swimming pool change room.
- The abuser threatened to kill him and his family if he told anyone.
Stockholm Syndrome
- Nathan developed Stockholm Syndrome, feeling love for his abuser while enduring years of violent abuse.
- The abuser's grooming tactics included gifts and affection alongside the violence.
Coping Mechanisms
- As a teenager, Nathan coped with his trauma through substance abuse and violence.
- He frequented gay clubs, engaging in sexual acts and then robbing the men involved.