BK Shivani, an advocate for releasing expectations in relationships, empowers individuals to change unhealthy habits. The podcast highlights the importance of accepting others as they are, using positive thoughts and blessings to empower them, and overcoming past traumas to create healthier relationships.
Releasing expectations in relationships empowers others to change and harmonizes our relationship.
Offering love, support, and healing helps individuals move beyond past trauma and pain.
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Acceptance and Love
The podcast explores the concept of accepting and loving others as they are, without expecting them to conform to our expectations. It emphasizes the importance of giving advice with pure intentions but not getting hurt or frustrated if the person doesn't change according to our desires. Instead, the focus should be on giving them the power to change their own 'sun scars' or past experiences, and visualizing them already manifesting positive behaviors. Acceptance and love are key to nurturing relationships and allowing others to be their true selves.
Healing Past Trauma
The podcast highlights the significance of understanding that every individual carries past trauma and pain from previous lifetimes. It emphasizes the need to offer love, support, and healing to help them move beyond their past experiences. Without knowing the specifics of someone's trauma, it's important not to reject, criticize, or compare them to others. Instead, we should create new positive impressions to replace the negative ones, whether it's about physical fears or emotional challenges. This healing process requires patience, compassion, and gentle steps towards recording new impressions on their soul's journey.
BK Shivani highlights the need to release expectations in relationships. Every individual is a soul on a long journey of many births, been through different experiences, and carried different sanskars. Criticizing them for not meeting our expectations depletes both of us. Accepting them as they are, and giving blessings empowers them to change any unhealthy habit and harmonizes our relationship.
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