
The Partially Examined Life Philosophy Podcast Ep. 383: Freud on Love and the Primal Horde (Part One)
Jan 12, 2026
The hosts dive into Freud's intriguing ideas on love and group psychology. They contrast passionate romantic relationships with the obligations of group life. The discussion highlights how intense love can blur moral lines, sometimes leading to drastic actions. They also explore connections between love, hypnosis, and group dynamics. The concept of the 'ego ideal' is scrutinized, revealing how group membership shapes personal identity. Lastly, the tension between individual agency and belonging is explored, making for a thought-provoking analysis.
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Love Integrates Affection And Sexuality
- Freud distinguishes affectionate love from adult sexual love and links affectionate love to early parental ties.
- Being in love integrates sexual and affectionate currents and often involves idealization that can override other values.
Leaders Become Shared Ego Ideals
- Freud uses identification and idealization to explain how group allegiance can replace individual conscience.
- The leader or idea becomes an ego ideal that channels libidinal energy and enables crowd suggestion or hypnosis.
Identification: Bonding And Bitter Source
- Freud links identification to both social bonding and to sources of aggression and misery in civilization.
- Identification builds solidarities but also underlies hatred and extreme violence when redirected.





