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Seeing Other People

Understanding Yourself in Dating & Relationships with Erin Claire Jones

May 15, 2025
58:45

Ilana is joined by Human Design expert and author Erin Claire Jones (@erinclairejones) to break down how understanding your unique design can shift the way you date, connect, and make decisions in love. Erin explains what Human Design is, how it compares to tools like astrology or the Enneagram, and how your chart reveals insights into your relationship patterns and emotional wiring. They talk about the five Human Design types and how each one tends to show up in dating, why we’re drawn to certain people, and how to tell the difference between authentic traits and protective patterns. Erin also shares what she’s learned from working with thousands of couples, how to navigate red flags, and how your design can help you stop second-guessing yourself when it comes to love.

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