Mark Matousek, celebrated author and writing mentor, discusses the practicality and rise of Stoicism in today's world. Topics include control versus acceptance, working with emotions, turning obstacles upside down, finding purpose in suffering, embracing struggle, and the meaning of enlightenment.
Stoicism is a practical philosophy that helps us cope with adversity and accept the challenges of life.
Stoicism encourages us to shift our perspective, accept the limitations of control, and find resilience in difficult times.
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Stoicism is the most practical philosophy
Stoicism is at its best when circumstances are at their worst. It is a practical philosophy that helps us cope with adversity, understand the limitations of control, and accept the inevitable challenges of life. By reducing negative feelings and painful emotions, Stoicism teaches us to let go of the need to control everything and focus on what is within our sphere of influence.
Choosing perspective and cultivating resilience
Stoicism encourages us to shift our perspective and accept the limitations of control. By surrendering to the reality of what we can and cannot change, we can minimize suffering and find resilience in difficult times. Stoics emphasize the importance of humility, recognizing that we cannot have agency over everything and that our desire to change everything is often fueled by ego. It is about finding balance between letting go and taking appropriate action.
Amor Fatih: Learning to love life as it is
Amor Fatih, a core teaching of the Stoics, invites us to love and accept life as it is. It calls for making space for the present moment and practicing mindfulness. Stoicism teaches us to let go of attachments and surrender to what is beyond our control. By embracing Amor Fatih, we can find joy and celebration in our lives, accepting both the imperfections and limitations.
Using writing and self-reflection for personal growth
Writing and self-reflection are powerful tools in the Stoic philosophy. They allow us to gain deeper self-awareness, challenge our perspectives, and explore the purpose of our suffering and emotions. Through writing prompts and self-inquiry, we can shift our angle of vision, practice awareness, and develop a better understanding of ourselves and our place in the world.
When things are at their worst, says celebrated author and writing mentor Mark Matousek, Stoicism is at its best. Considered the most practical of all philosophies, Stoicism is on the rise in today's world—for reasons you'll hear discussed in this podcast.
Give a listen to this educational, pragmatic, and perspective-shifting conversation with Mark and Sounds True's Tami Simon exploring control versus acceptance; using the mind in a more skillful way; humility, proportion, and appropriate action; taking responsibility for what we're capable of; amor fati, to love life; working with your emotions; Emerson and “the exterior life”; writing prompts for letting go of the disempowering stories we tell ourselves; choosing how we hold our memories; why Stoicism is not a form of bypassing; adversity as a path to freedom; the practice of turning the obstacle upside down; shifting your angle of vision and telling the whole truth; "cosmic optimism," Emerson's reality-based form of hope; asking questions and finding your own way; doubt, confusion, and struggle on the spiritual path; Emerson's view of enlightenment; and more.
Note: This episode originally aired on Sounds True One, where these special episodes of Insights at the Edge are available to watch live on video and with exclusive access to Q&As with our guests. Learn more at join.soundstrue.com.
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