The Becket Cook Show Marries a Man–Meets Christ–Divorces Man: Jay Dios Testimony
Jan 29, 2026
Jay Dios, who grew up in a conservative Christian home and navigated same-sex attraction and pornography, shares his personal journey. He recounts reading affirming theology, entering and later dissolving a same-sex marriage, and a faith turnaround that led him to Passion City Church. The conversation touches on repentance, obedience, sanctification, and pursuing contentment in Christ.
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Porn Exposure At A Sleepover
- Jay Dios describes being shown lesbian pornography at a childhood sleepover and feeling shocked and curious.
- That exposure sparked early pornography use and long-term struggles with same-sex attraction.
Coming Out To His Mom At 11
- Jay came out to his mother at age 11 and saw a strong emotional reaction from her.
- He sensed the disclosure shocked his family and later felt the pressure of church expectations.
College Doubts Met By A Convicting Sermon
- In college, Jay wrestled with secular criticism and searched for objective truth while still seeking church community.
- A sermon by Pastor Brandon convinced him God's Word was true and led him to an altar call.
