Brendan O'Connor Should you date against your type?
Aug 30, 2025
Freelance journalist Édaein O'Connell shares her insights on dating outside of traditional 'types,' sparked by Taylor Swift's surprising engagement to Travis Kelce. The conversation dives into modern dating habits, humorously examining trends like mustaches and the decline of social interactions in bars. Édaein discusses the societal judgments surrounding unconventional couples and personal anecdotes from dating apps, emphasizing how stepping outside one’s comfort zone can lead to unexpected connections and deeper compatibility.
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Different Worlds Can Complement
- Taylor Swift's new partner Travis Kelce appears different from her past artistic, complicated boyfriends.
- Édaein O'Connell suggests Kelce's non-entertainment status may reduce insecurity and create distance in career spheres.
Career Distance Lowers Threat
- Being in separate industries can reduce professional competition and insecurity in relationships.
- Édaein argues Travis Kelce mightn't feel threatened because his career path is totally different to Taylor's.
Similarity Dominates, With Key Differences
- Studies show couples are similar on most traits, contradicting the pure 'opposites attract' idea.
- But people often differ on personality, height, and lifestyle while agreeing on core values like religion and politics.