Malcolm Ocean and I talk about collective IFS Self

Some things we mentioned include:

* A Positive Account of Property Rights

* the original instructions for we-ness

* someone's write-up of the we-ship experiment that Malcolm ran (the one where we did the "goodbye for now, Malcolm")

Malcolm also posted the same conversation but with video to his YouTube channel if you want that!

I’ve included some automatically generated chapter timestamps in case that’s useful.

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Internal Family Systems and WeSpace

03:01 Collective Selfness and Group Dynamics

06:00 The We-Ship Experiment: Collective Consciousness

08:59 Navigating Individuality within Collectivity

11:58 Fractal Nature of Selfness in Groups

15:02 Understanding Self-Energy in Group Contexts

17:55 Projection and Responsibility in Group Dynamics

20:49 Defining Boundaries: What is Us and What is Not Us?

27:00 Navigating Relevance in Conversations

29:55 The Dynamics of Group Triggers

32:57 Exploring Collective Self and Shame

36:12 Understanding Boundaries and Ownership

39:00 Moral Layers in Property and Boundaries

41:54 The Complexity of Group Dynamics

44:58 Fairness and Communication Styles

55:58 Earning Attention and Communication Dynamics

57:03 Navigating Group Dynamics and Proactive Engagement

59:00 Establishing Boundaries in Communication

59:51 Finding Solutions in Parenting and Communication

01:00:55 The Importance of Shared Information in Conversations

01:03:05 Addressing Safety and Container Dynamics

01:03:59 Self-Sustaining Dynamics in Group Settings

01:05:55 The Role of Leadership in Group Containers

01:07:54 Exploring Collective Self and Attunement

01:10:01 Unpacking Self and Group Dynamics

01:11:57 Ego Awareness and Self-Modeling in Conversations

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