Dr. Emily Morse joins Alex on Call Her Daddy to discuss achieving orgasms, exploring sex toys, reviving a sex life, admitting to faking orgasms, communicating with a partner, and incorporating different toys such as cock rings, vibrating wands, and masturbation sleeves. They also emphasize the importance of communication and provide tips for overcoming shame and trauma surrounding masturbation. The podcast covers topics such as understanding the anatomy of the vulva and clitoris, strategies to revitalize a stagnant sex life, and using toys for couples.
Using a vibrator is not a crutch, but a way to enhance pleasure for both vulva and penis owners.
Mutual masturbation can improve sexual communication, deepen intimacy, and enhance overall sexual experience.
Prioritizing self-pleasure, open communication with partners, and exploring different techniques and toys can help achieve orgasm and sexual satisfaction without shame.
Deep dives
Normalizing Vibrators and Self-Pleasure
In this episode, the importance of normalizing vibrators and self-pleasure is discussed. The guest, Dr. Emily Morse, emphasizes that there is no shame in using a vibrator and that it is not a crutch. She explains that vibrators provide additional stimulation and can enhance pleasure for both vulva owners and penis owners. It is highlighted that the clitoris, with its thousands of nerve endings, is the primary source of orgasm for most vulva owners. The stigma surrounding masturbation is also addressed, with Dr. Morse emphasizing the importance of self-connection and learning about one's own body through masturbation.
Mutual Masturbation and Sexual Exploration
The benefits of mutual masturbation in a relationship are discussed in this episode. It is suggested that mutual masturbation can be a hot and educational experience, allowing partners to observe and learn from each other's techniques and preferences. This practice can improve sexual communication, deepen intimacy, and help couples understand what brings pleasure to each other. Dr. Morse encourages couples to engage in open conversations about masturbation and to explore various techniques and toys together. The idea of making mutual masturbation a regular part of sexual play is presented as a way to enhance the overall sexual experience for both partners.
Understanding Orgasms and Exploring Solo Pleasure
The topic of orgasms is explored, particularly in relation to solo pleasure. Dr. Emily Morse highlights the need for patience, openness, and self-exploration when it comes to achieving orgasm. It is emphasized that discovering one's own orgasmic response may take time and practice. The importance of setting aside dedicated time, using lubrication, and experimenting with different types of touch is discussed. In addition, the importance of having open and honest conversations with partners about orgasm and sexual satisfaction is emphasized. Overall, the episode encourages listeners to prioritize their own pleasure, explore their bodies, and seek pleasure without shame.
Understanding Arousal and Internal Stimulation
To enhance internal stimulation, it is beneficial to first be aroused and experience clitoral orgasm, as it engorges the G-spot area. Once aroused, you can explore the G-spot, which is located about an inch or two inside the vagina. This area can be more easily stimulated and may enhance your overall climax. It is important to prioritize external stimulation, as most nerves responsible for orgasm are located on the vulva. Nipple stimulation can also contribute to overall pleasure and can activate similar regions in the brain as the clitoris.
Improving Sexual Connection and Introducing Sex Toys
To improve sexual connection with a long-term partner, open communication is crucial. Reflect on memorable sexual experiences together and identify what specifically turned both partners on during those encounters. This information can guide future sexual exploration and help reignite passion. Additionally, introducing sex toys can elevate pleasure for both partners. For heterosexual couples, using cock rings that provide external vibrations on the clitoris, or prostate toys for anal play, can enhance pleasure and introduce new sensations. Open dialogue and consent are essential before incorporating toys into the bedroom.
Dr. Emily Morse joins Call Her Daddy to help you finally achieve (or upgrade) your orgasm. What’s the deal with vibrators? Should everyone own one? Emily brought all her sex toys and is here to talk you through, step-by-step, how to explore and maximize your orgasm - with and without a partner. Alex and Emily discuss how to revive your sex life, admit you’ve been faking orgasms, and communicate with your partner about sex. Get ready to learn some new moves and incorporate cock rings, vibrating wands and masturbation sleeves into your sex. Whether you’ve never had an orgasm or are looking to elevate your sex life, Alex and Emily break it all down.
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