Andrew Walker, author of "What Do I Say When...?", and Christian Walker, co-author of the same book, join Sarah Stonestreet to tackle the art of discussing tough topics with children. They explore practical strategies for navigating challenging subjects like identity and culture. The conversation emphasizes the value of early and open dialogues to strengthen parent-child bonds. The guests share insights on integrating biblical values into these discussions, ensuring children feel equipped to engage with the complex world around them.
Engaging in intentional conversations about cultural issues empowers children to develop moral intuition and understanding in a complex world.
Using resources like 'What Do I Say When' helps parents simplify complex topics and address them from a biblical worldview confidently.
Establishing regular family discussions fosters an environment for children to explore faith and understand the relevance of their beliefs in daily life.
Deep dives
Navigating Cultural Confusion with Children
Raising children in a time of cultural confusion requires intentional conversations that address complex topics such as technology, politics, sexuality, and identity. A valuable resource for parents is the book 'What Do I Say When,' which provides targeted guidance on how to communicate these challenging subjects effectively. The structure of the book facilitates conversations at different developmental levels, offering parents tools to understand and articulate their beliefs. This customized approach empowers parents to engage meaningfully with their children and navigate difficult discussions with confidence.
The Importance of Open Conversations
It is crucial for parents to actively engage in conversations about cultural issues rather than avoiding them out of fear of awkwardness. By being the first to discuss challenging topics, parents help children develop a foundation of understanding and moral intuition. Open dialogue allows children to ask questions and fosters trust, enabling them to approach their parents with concerns in the future. A proactive approach to difficult discussions ensures that children are not left to interpret information solely from external influences.
Simplifying Complex Cultural Topics
The book emphasizes the need for parents to simplify complex topics for their children, focusing on foundational principles rooted in a biblical worldview. By framing discussions around God's creation and his plan for human dignity, parents can address various cultural crises, such as abortion and gender identity. The concept of discussing God's intent allows for clear, age-appropriate conversations that resonate with children's innate sense of morality. This approach provides a structure to navigate through the chaos of cultural ideology while fostering a deep understanding of Christian values.
Building Intentional Family Rhythms
Establishing intentional family rhythms, such as regular dinner conversations and devotions, can significantly impact children's spiritual and moral formation. By setting aside time for family discussions and teaching moments, parents create an environment where questions and concerns are addressed. This engagement helps children grasp the relevance of their faith in everyday life and prepares them for challenges they may face as they grow. Over time, these rhythms enable children to internalize values and apply them in their interactions with the world around them.
Understanding the Role of Politics
Politics is discussed as a necessary part of parenting in today's society, where children must learn the importance of civic engagement. Parents are encouraged to educate their children about governmental structures and how laws impact community welfare. By addressing political issues from a Christian perspective, families can navigate these conversations with clarity and intent. This awareness helps children understand their role in society and instills a sense of responsibility as they grow into informed citizens.
If you’re a parent, you know a time is coming when your child will ask uncomfortable questions about the culturally confused time in which we live. John and Sarah Stonestreet talk to Andrew and Christian Walker about what to say when those questions come your way.
Resources and Recommendations
Get your copy of What Do I Say When...? with your gift of any amount to the Colson Center this month at colsoncenter.org/october.