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What Women Mean By 'Just Be Yourself'
- 'Just be yourself' is useless if your natural behavior is unattractive and provides no guidance.
- Smart women mean: don't fake it, discover your attractive traits and emphasize them instead.
Put Yourself Where Strengths Shine
- Find social contexts that let your real strengths show instead of forcing you to act fake.
- Avoid trying to be outgoing or funny if that's not who you are because it comes off as fake.
Ask Trusted People What Works
- Ask honest, smart friends which traits of yours women find attractive.
- Use their feedback to choose places and activities where those traits naturally surface.