347: Claim Your Bragging Rights—From Hidden Gems to Halo Effects with Lisa Bragg
Nov 5, 2023
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Lisa Bragg, an expert in self-promotion, discusses the myths about self-promotion, the importance of owning your expertise, and developing a bragging strategy. They also explore the challenges of being in the spotlight, the significance of recognition, and the continuous evolution of pivoting. They emphasize the value of narrow casting and attracting the right audience.
Narrowcasting is more effective than broadcasting when it comes to self-promotion and engaging specific audiences.
Being visible and sharing personal stories and expertise is crucial for self-promotion and being recognized in one's industry.
Deep dives
Importance of Connecting with People and Guarding Energy
It is important to prioritize connecting with the people you want to engage with your work. Guarding your energy and not wasting time on self-promotion and bragging is crucial. A focus on the question 'What's next?' helps in directing efforts towards future goals and marketing oneself effectively.
Navigating Self-Promotion From Broadcasting to Authorship
Transitioning from broadcasting to self-promotion involves recognizing the shift in focus from the people you interview to promoting your own work. It can be challenging to step into the spotlight and talk about personal ideas and stories. Overcoming this challenge involves reminding yourself to be visible, share your stories, and showcase your expertise.
The Concept of Hidden Gems and Being Seen and Heard
Many individuals are hidden gems, working behind the scenes and not sharing their valuable work. It is fundamental for humans to be seen and heard, both within their industry and to a specific audience. Recognizing the value of self-promotion and understanding that others want to hear your stories is essential.
Embracing Self-Promotion and Having Boundaries
Overcoming the discomfort and awkwardness of self-promotion involves embracing the practice. Developing scripts and prepared responses can help navigate situations where the request for assistance or reciprocation arises. Setting boundaries and understanding that it is okay to say 'no' when necessary is crucial for maintaining priorities and ensuring personal success.
“By trying to appeal to everyone, you appeal to no one,” writes Lisa Bragg. “Instead of broadcasting, think of narrowcasting.” The clue to today’s conversation is in her name, an idea she grew up grappling with: to brag (or not).
“Hidden gems” are often told to work in the background or “be so great they can’t ignore you.” But the world is just too noisy for that now. Lisa is sharing how we can “shimmer with pride” gracefully, without veering into obnoxious braggadociousness (yes, I just made that word up).
More About Lisa: Living with the name Bragg, Lisa has had to master the art and science of self promotion. She’s seen when being too humble has cost international deals and when bragging right has unlocked opportunities leading to untold fortunes. Lisa helps high-achievers of all sorts to be seen, heard and share their value with the world. Her book, Bragging Rights: How to Talk about Your Work Using Purposeful Self Promotion, launched in May.
🌟 3 Key Takeaways
Self-Promotion Myths: Your work speaks for yourself; cream rises to the top; and if you wait for it, you will be chosen.
Bragging Rights Strategy: How are you? Who are you? Who do you serve? What do you know? Who do you know? Who knows you? What’s next?
Own your knowledgeable authority: You can be influential by having a point of view and articulating it, either as a: knowledge broker (curating ideas with a central theme), expert (developing your own thought-leadership), and/or visionary (seeing around corners or into the future and communicating a distinct vision).
✅ Try This Next: Journal on the following prompts—When do you wish you had been bolder? Reflect on a time you were bold. What happened? Bonus: Start your brag book—capture kudos that you didn’t get, compliments you want, “keeper” emails people have sent you (a smile file).